12 Feb

Test to see if your desire to control is strong?

Test to see if your desire to control is strong?

When you go to a barber shop or a hair salon, how do you communicate with the hairdresser?

Should I elaborate or let the hairdresser cut it?

Your answer can polish whether you are a controlling person.

  Test translation: How do you communicate with a hairdresser at a barbershop?

  A, throw a bunch of magazines and ask him to decide B. Oral explanation roughly points to direction C. Take a photo and ask him to cut D. Let the hairdresser help you answer the answer: choose A: throw a bunch of magazines and let him decide.

Control of desire: 40 points.

I don’t know if you are really good at negotiation, or you are born with a weak personality. You often listen to others’ opinions, so what you originally planned, in the end, had the ideas of others, and even ownership was quietly in the hands of others.

  Option B: The verbal instructions outline the direction.

Control of desire: 60 points.

Your preferences are quite obvious. You will unconsciously want to have control over the things you care about, so that you can devote yourself wholeheartedly, and no one else can interfere; but if you are not interested, you will not care about yourself.Just let it go.

  Option C: Take the picture and ask him to cut it.

Control of desire: 90 points.

You are not very safe in the workplace. Once you have the power, you would rather let yourself be half-tired than give power to others. Unless you feel powerless, it is difficult for others to get you.Authorization.

  Option D: Let the hairdresser help you.

Control of desire: 75 points.

You have a clear relationship between estrangement, closeness, and closeness. If you want to share a cup of power from your control, you must first gain your deep trust. As for someone who is not familiar with you, if you want to let you delegate power to him, you can sayIt’s harder than going to heaven.

11 Feb

Delicious fruit fishing grinds your ability to capture love

Delicious fruit fishing grinds your ability to capture love

Come to a freshly decorated dessert spot and watch the various beautiful fruit fishing pictures on the menu. You can’t help drooling.

The waiter has recommended the following four kinds of fruit fishing. Which one do you want to try the most?

A, original papaya coconut flavor Tremella fish B, assorted fruit skewers with ice cream C, papaya jelly Punch D, red bean pumpkin Xueba Choice A: Tremella has nourishing yin and cough, lungs and phlegm, moisturize the skin, moisturize the intestines and appetizersEfficacy, coupled with papaya and slippery coconut pieces, if you put it in the refrigerator and freeze it, it is worthy of summer coolness.

But if you want it to be authentic, spend more time.

Just like your love, it is also slow work and careful work, slowly boil, and finally more and more people are in love and can’t bear to let go.

Option B: The hotness of skewers and the coldness of ice cream, your love taste is two extremes.

It is sweet and sweet to be a lover, and it is frosty to be a lover.

You are hot and cold fast, so your relationship is mostly short-lived.

However, you are devoted to each relationship with all your heart, so you are suspicious and you must not have any shortcomings.

But your behavior is very different from your heart, and often leaves your lover wondering what you are thinking.

Option C: The transparent and beautiful jelly, often people can’t bear to eat these.

Punch is a local drink in India, which has a full relationship with red wine. After blending, the color is very beautiful.

The combination of punch and papaya jelly is beautiful and delicate, just like your love, very beautiful, but very fragile.

Although the wine still has the original flavor of papaya, when facing love, you should still make yourself stronger and brave.

Choice D: Xueba is made with a small amount of milk, so it is occasionally lower in content than normal ice products, and it becomes healthier to eat, but its sugar content is high, so you cannot eat it in excess.

But red beans have a fat-reducing effect. If you eat them together, you don’t have to worry about getting fat.

Although your love has many disadvantages, it is so harmonious as a whole. Like men and women in the world, although there are occasional disputes, they are very sweet.

31 Jan

Common Sense: Six Things to Know About Yoga Practice

Common Sense: Six Things to Know About Yoga Practice

Yoga is a systemic glandular exercise. There is no age limit and anyone can learn.

In addition to working in the office, there are several points to pay special attention to when practicing at a fitness club or at home: 1. There are no special regulations on the diet of the practitioner.

One half of the stomach can be filled with food, one quarter can be filled with water, and the remaining quarter can be left vacant.

Do not avoid it for an hour before or after practicing yoga, and try to avoid it for two hours after a meal.

  2. Warming up is important.

Don’t do difficult movements at the beginning to avoid sports injuries.

It is best to do some yoga warm-ups first, step by step, to avoid being frightened.

  3. Relax as much as you can during the exercise. You can withstand a little soreness in your body, but don’t use excessive force or force action.

  4. Don’t laugh or talk while practicing. Breathe intently.

Maintaining regular, deeper breathing helps your body relax.

  5. It is best to practice every day. After finishing a complete yoga movement, remember to lie down and have a rest.

  6, should be practiced in a quiet, well-ventilated room.

The indoor air must be fresh and free to inhale oxygen.

You can also practice in the air, but in a pleasant environment, do not practice in high winds, cold or dirty, smoky air.

Do not practice near any furniture, stove, or interventional practice to avoid accidents, especially when doing head and handstand, and do not practice under electric fans.

29 Jan

Watch out for the ineffective things in life

Watch out for the “ineffective” things in life

Obviously took the medicine, but it didn’t work!
Obviously brushed his teeth, but the same as not brushed!
Obviously applied sunscreen, but still tanned!
Obviously working very hard to lose weight, but there is no effect!
You must have encountered many, many such “invalid” things.
Are they all fake and shoddy products?
Why does the same thing work at home?
Take a look at these truths, you will suddenly realize!
.hzh{display:none;}  头痛使用止痛药——无效!: Reason: Studies show that almost all headaches are caused by blood vessels and muscles, especially the tension of blood vessels.
When migraine is caused by factors such as emotional stress, drugs and alcohol, due to the contraction of blood vessels in the cerebral arteries, with each heartbeat, the arterial blood vessels will be stretched to cause pain.
Therefore, when treating headaches, the first and most effective drugs are not painkillers, but drugs that act on blood vessels.
  Using antibiotics for colds-no effect!
: Reason: Influenza is an upper respiratory tract infection caused by influenza viruses. Influenza viruses are type A, B, and C. Frequently, new subtypes are caused by mutations.
Obviously, antibiotics are not useful for flu.
  Dermatitis, pruritus hormones-ineffective!
: Reason: Because the adrenocortical hormone has anti-allergic and anti-inflammatory effects, it has a certain effect on certain skin diseases and pruritus, but in most cases it is useless.
Long-term application may induce infection, affect growth and development, and even cause ulcers or unhealed.
  Antibiotics for diarrhea-no effect!
: Reason: Diarrhea is not caused entirely by infection. Improper diet, food allergies, changes in living rules, sudden changes in external climate, and other reasons may cause diarrhea. This type of diarrhea is not effective with antibiotics and should be treated with diet or digestive drugs.
  Dip your teeth first with water = white brush. When most people brush their teeth, they habitually wet their toothbrushes before squeezing toothpaste.
This is how journalists usually brush their teeth.
In fact, if the toothbrush is wet, it is easy to foam after squeezing toothpaste, and if there is too much foam in the mouth, people feel that they have brushed their teeth for a long time and think it is over.
At this time, the teeth were not really cleaned, so it was incorrect.
  Toothpaste is not originally used to clean teeth with foam, but by the cleaning ingredients and friction between the toothbrush and the teeth.
The finer the friction and the longer the time, the cleaner it will be.
  The toothbrush is not dipped in water. Squeeze the toothpaste and brush slowly, and gradually produce some fine foam, so that the cleaning ingredients of the toothpaste can be exerted to the maximum, and then the mouthwash will be finished.
  Random application of sunscreen = white application of sunscreen is to absorb or block ultraviolet rays, so as to protect the skin from damage, not to absorb the skin, as long as the application is thick enough and uniform enough.
  Some sunscreen formulations are not suitable for repeated rubbing, and it is not advisable to massage after application.
These sunscreens contain more powdery ingredients. After coating, a thin film will be formed on the face. Repeated rubbing tends to coagulate into particles, causing uneven application.
These sunscreens are best patted on the face rather than rubbed repeatedly.
In addition, some sunscreens have added biological sunscreens, which block or slow down tissue damage or promote post-sun repair to achieve the purpose of resisting ultraviolet radiation, which must be effective after washing the skin.
This product needs to be applied early for the sunscreen ingredients to work.
  Improper weight loss = Bai Jianmin. According to a recent report by CNN, a new study shows that for women, the benefits of cycling are not limited to physical fitness, but are more effective in maintaining body shape.
  Professor Lu Yifan from the Research Institute of Sports Medicine, Beijing Sport University reminded that although the weight loss effect of cycling is good, the posture must be correct.
Lean forward slightly, keep your arms straight as far as you can, and keep your knees facing straight ahead.
Do not stretch your legs outwards and bend over your back. This will not only affect the exercise effect, but also cause sports injuries.
Also don’t excessively pursue the action of the bicycle race. In the race, the athlete bends forward as much as possible in order to pursue fast speed and low resistance.This is not suitable for our daily exercise.

21 Jan

The Three Points of Premature Infant Care

The “Three Points” of Premature Infant Care

As the saying goes, October conceives.
“Melon is ripe” is the natural perfection.
However, in clinical practice, a considerable number of newborns are reported in advance.
According to statistics, the premature birth rate in Guangdong Province is as high as 9%, which is slightly higher than the national level. This situation has attracted the attention of neonatal specialists.
Yang Jie, director of the neonatal department of the Guangdong Provincial Maternal and Child Health Hospital, said that pregnant women are experiencing mental stress, high blood pressure, diabetes and other diseases during pregnancy, and unknown infections are the reasons for the increase in premature babies.
The viability of premature babies is low, and home care is very important.
  Nearly 10% of preterm births are caused by high mental stress. Children born before 37 weeks of gestation and children with a birth weight less than 2500g are called “premature babies.”
According to statistics, in recent years, the proportion of premature babies has increased significantly.
According to the national large sample epidemiological survey data, premature babies nationwide accounted for about 7 births in 2002.
7%, rising to 8.
1%.
The latest survey shows that the incidence of preterm birth in Guangdong Province is about 9%, which is higher than the national level.
There are about 100 premature babies in Guangdong Maternal and Child Health Hospital every month.
Most of these premature babies are born at 28-30 weeks.
Director Yang Jie said that this is related to the current mental stress of pregnant women, suffering from basic diseases and susceptibility to infection.
  Yang Jie said that recently they delivered a pair of twins who were only 24 weeks pregnant, and each newborn weighed less than 500 grams.
It is worth noting that twins and multiple births in IVF are prone to premature birth, so do not artificially “make” twins.
  Premature babies are born with inadequate birth and home care is important. Premature babies are difficult to adapt to sudden changes in the extrauterine environment due to immature organs in the whole body, and are prone to various complications and even death.
Yang Jie said that, in general, with the help of medical staff and parents, premature babies must go through the three barriers: first pass: keep warm premature babies are basically in the warm box when they are born.
Because of premature birth, the baby’s body temperature is underdeveloped.
Only give him or her a warm environment to ensure that it is always at a moderate temperature.
At this temperature, the body consumes the least amount of oxygen, has the least amount of evaporation and heat dissipation, and has the lowest metabolism.
Wait until the child’s weight is up to the outside temperature to get out of the incubator.
  Yang Jie said, however, many premature babies return to home after being discharged from the hospital, often because of poor thermal insulation measures, resulting in colds and fevers and fever.
  Experts recommend: Because premature babies are very sensitive to temperature, parents should pay attention to keeping the child’s body temperature and indoor temperature after discharge, not too cold or overheating. In summer, the indoor temperature is maintained at 26-28 ℃, and in winter it isIt is advisable to keep the indoor temperature around 24 ° C.
Such temperatures not only help premature babies to “catch up” their growth, but also reduce their chances of infection.
  The second hurdle: cleaning After returning home for premature babies, it is best to take a bath every day even if you don’t sweat.
But many parents are afraid to bathe their children because they are afraid of their cold.
Therefore, it is often found that premature babies who do not pay attention to cleanliness, erosion of the neck, thighs and other skin wrinkles.
  Yang Jie believes that premature babies have immature skin development and are susceptible to infection. Bathing him is not only a simple health problem, but also an important way to prevent baby skin infections.
  Experts recommend: Give your baby a bath, preferably one hour after feeding.
The indoor temperature should be appropriate when taking a shower, especially in winter, the indoor temperature should generally be maintained between 26-28 ° C.
The water temperature is controlled at about 40 ° C, and the mother can test the water temperature with the inside of her wrist.
When taking a bath, be careful not to get your baby’s belly button wet. If it gets wet, disinfect it with alcohol, then wipe it with a cotton swab, and keep the umbilical clean and dry to prevent infection.
  The third hurdle: feeding babies, due to weak sucking power, poor swallowing function, and small stomach capacity in premature babies, can easily cause choking and choking. In addition, various digestive enzymes are insufficient, and digestion and absorption are also poor.
Therefore, after being discharged home from the hospital, scientific feeding is important.
When preparing formula, parents should not be too thick or too thin.
The temperature should also be moderate, and the mother can drop the prepared milk on the back of the hand as the standard is not hot.Feeding should be slow to prevent the baby from eating too fast and causing breastfeeding.

  Experts suggest that the baby bottle should be boiled and disinfected regularly, and the room should be opened regularly for ventilation to ensure fresh air.

Because the child’s immune system is low, avoiding initial infection and respiratory infections is the key to improving the survival rate of preterm infants.

16 Jan

The elderly should pay attention to the four tips of the body

The elderly should pay attention to the “four tips” of the body

In the face of the “collective” decline in physical function, many elderly people will have the feeling of wanting to intervene but have no way to start.
In this regard, experts from the Chinese Academy of Traditional Chinese Medicine gave a solution: the elderly should especially re-maintain the “four tips.”
  Chinese medicine believes that “refers to the tip of the tendon, the tongue is the tip of the meat, the tip of the blood, the tooth is the tip of the bone.
Human body tips and organs are interrelated. By observing the four tips, the functional state of the body can be analyzed.
The elderly pay attention to the health care of the four tips, which is good for health and longevity.
The tip of the bone: the tooth has been researched abroad, and it is pointed out that the loss of teeth indicates that people are getting old.
Chinese medicine also believes that the kidney is the main bone and the teeth are the tip of the bone.
Older people with calcium deficiency and osteoporosis may have earlier tooth loss.
Therefore, if you want to protect your teeth, you should pay attention to maintaining the existing teeth, and repair the bad teeth in time to improve the quality of life of the elderly.
  Usually you can choose some kidney-reinforcing drugs, such as Liuwei Dihuang Pills, Jingui Shenqi Pills, etc.
In addition, Chinese medicine also promotes dental caries, that is, the occlusal movement of the upper and lower teeth, which can not only enhance the elasticity and toughness of the teeth, but also solidify the kidney gas and promote the secretion of saliva, and enhance the function of digestion and absorption.
  The tip of the meat: tongue Chinese medicine believes that: the main muscle of the spleen, the tongue is outside the spleen.
People’s aging or digestive problems can show some clues on the tongue.
Older people should pay attention to observe their own tongue and tongue coating. For example, the tongue is thin, which may be the body aging, the performance of kidney deficiency; the tongue is thick and greasy, may have indigestion; the color of the tongue is dark, may be qi stagnationBlood stasis, meridians are not able to pass, suggesting to prevent myocardial infarction, cerebral infarction.
  The elderly should pay attention to oral cleaning, insist on brushing your teeth in the morning and evening, and gargle after meals.
A clean mouth helps to improve the taste of the taste buds and the excitability of the taste cells.
Pay special attention not to scrape the tongue often, because the scraping of the tongue easily destroys the taste buds, making the elderly with a lower taste taste worse.
  The tip of the tendon: refers to the toe. The ribs correspond to the liver. If the fingers and toes are not flexible or numb, it may be a manifestation of liver aging and poor circulation.
It is worth mentioning that the gangrene of the toe is one of the most common complications of diabetes, so many elderly people first went to the hospital because of foot problems, but diagnosed diabetes.
  The maintenance of the finger toes is especially important for patients who have already been diagnosed with diabetes.
Wear shoes should be a little bigger and fatter, so that the feet are not bent.
When walking, consciously grasp the ground with your toes. Before going to bed, you should always use warm water to soak your feet. After soaking, wipe dry, then gently massage with both hands.
In addition, some precise and meticulous manual work can increase the sensitivity of the hands, delay the aging of the brain, and promote blood circulation and smooth flow.
  The tip of the blood: hair is an indicator of the rise and fall of blood.
The blood is strong, the hair is black and shiny; if the blood is weak, the hair will be white, brown, and scarce.
Hair changes are the initial signal to step into the aging process.
  The elderly protect hair, wash their hair and do not use too much soap; use combs to promote blood circulation of the scalp; usually eat some foods that have kidney, blood and black hair, such as Shouwu, medlar, longan,Jujube, black sesame, walnut, black bean, black fungus, etc.
These nutritious foods are good tonics that delay aging.

12 Jan

The elderly comb their hair for 10 minutes every day to prevent strokes

The elderly comb their hair for 10 minutes every day to prevent strokes

Anti-aging, first cure the brain.

The brain is the headquarters of the human body. Protecting the brain is of great significance to the health of the human body.

Stroke is a common disease in the elderly. The best way to deal with it is to strengthen prevention. It is a simple and easy way to keep combing hair.

  Combs, not the need for beauty and make-up, but also have a great impact on self-care, especially for brain stroke can help prevent it.

As the saying goes: “Combating hair for ten minutes, preventing strokes is the truth.”

  The comb comb comb is used to stimulate the holographic acupoints of the head meridian and viscera corresponding to the head surface, and the biological information generated during the operation is applied to the head through the sensing relationship between the meridian and the hologram, so that the pores of the head are opened and excreted.Disperse.

This dredges the meridians, invigorates the yang, sputum and oxygen, and regulates the organs, thereby improving the body’s disease resistance.

Combs, as well as nerve reflex, improve blood circulation, promote the metabolism of tissue cells, this subtle relationship and subtle role, the transition to the whole process of combing hair.

From the starting point, if you want to get a better physiotherapy effect, you should have patience when combing your hair. The comb will act on the scalp and repeat it. The head watch can produce the slightest heat.

In general, it is best to use a comb to achieve health care. It is best to have a combing time of about 10 minutes each time.

  It is best to use jade, horn or wood instead of plastic.

Jade comb and multi-functional horn comb are ideal because they are rich in minerals and trace elements, which have a great benefit to the health of the human body.

03 Jan

Don’t make mistakes in skin suppleness

Don’t make mistakes in skin suppleness

MMs want their skin to be smooth and hydrated, so they also pay attention to daily hydration, as beauty experts say, to replenish eight glasses of water every day.

But is the method of rehydration correct?

Are there any misunderstandings about getting hydrated?

You know, if you do n’t replenish your water properly, you will not only get results, but you will probably make a big mistake.

  Myth 1: Skin hydration is not the same as body hydration. Skin dehydration is not the same as body dehydration. Drinking more water does not solve the fundamental problem, because only a trace amount of water is replenished into skin cells.

To really solve the problem of skin dehydration, moisturizing cream is the best choice.

  Recommended product: Chanel Moisturizing Essence Water Reference price: 500 yuan Product introduction: The light texture that seems to be absent. After contacting the skin, the gel instantly turns into a liquid, turning into a delicate and fresh water.

It penetrates quickly, exuding the fragrance of elegant white flowers and moist fig leaves.

Unique formula with top moisturizing ingredients: Lotus Concentrate and Coastal Fennel Extract.

Strengthens the defense function of the skin surface and enhances the efficacy of subsequent products.

  Recommended reason: An excellent product with good reputation. The gel particle size is also very suitable for summer use.

The unique moisturizing ingredients strengthen the defense function of the skin surface.

  Mistake area 2: Dehydration which seriously causes skin aging. The reduction of skin size directly leads to dryness, yellowing, darkening, dull skin, sagging, and early wrinkles.

Therefore, we must understand the problem of skin dehydration, especially in autumn, we must also consider the skin’s hydration.

  Recommended product: Lange Snow Melting Water Renewing Repair Cream Reference price: 50ml / 350 yuan Product introduction: The powerful water energy of Himalayan glacier water instantly moisturizes thirsty skin, creating a transparent and lustrous moisturizing skin.

Intensively hydrates while effectively tightening and brightening skin.

Enhances moisture activation, leaving skin hydrated throughout the day.

It maintains the balance of water and oil on the skin, which is especially beneficial for mixed skin during seasonal changes.

  Recommended reason: Does your skin want to “drink” the Himalayan glacier?

This moisturizing product will help your skin maintain a balance of water and oil!

  Misunderstanding 3: Mixing moisturizing with moisturizing Moisturizing is to directly supply the skin’s stratum corneum cells with the required moisture, while moisturizing the skin, it can also improve microcirculation and enhance skin moisturization.

Moisturizing can help prevent the skin’s water from evaporating, and it can’t solve the problem of skin dehydration at all.

  Recommended product: Shiseido Cleansing Specialty Soft Foaming Cleansing Foam Reference Price: 120g / 45 yuan Product Introduction: Added sericin and beauty liquid ingredients with excellent moisturizing effect, effectively achieving the perfection of cleansing and nourishing after cleansingCombined.

Even after washing, the skin is moist and soft, and it can also produce richer and more dense foam, which can penetrate deep into the pores and deep into the skin texture to remove fine dirt, and it will not hurt the skin.

  Recommended reason: a big one is only 45 yuan, and the collagen component in the cleansing milk can transport the moisturizing effect very well.

26 Dec

Can you distinguish between colleagues?

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Can you distinguish between colleagues?

What is the most popular word in the workplace now?

It’s “teamwork”-teamwork.

Which HR does not talk about communication, coordination and collaboration ability when they are recruiting?

However, how easy is it to truly unite in the circle of big and small in the office?

If you want to have a good relationship with your colleagues, I’m afraid I have to use some “heart attack”!

Sometimes, these “mind-breaking skills” are even the key to your work and success-everything depends on how you work in front of your colleagues, use clever techniques, and defeat the enemy . The boss hopes that the relationship between his employees is like a harp,Each employee is a vertical string, never intersected, and some are just wonderful music played together.

He himself is the skilled piano player.

But communication between employees is really not that simple.

In private, their relationship with each other is more like a spider web, which seems easy but can not stand the test. A gust of wind, a finger, and a gecko may break through the fragile web.

Moreover, there may be a “spider essence” in each web.

  Office game theory Cox’s 26-year-old interpersonal relationship game is really everywhere, so-called office politics is such a game.

Although I don’t want to spend a lot of time and brainpower on going to work every day or dealing with complex interpersonal relationships, this kind of thing is often what you don’t like and face.

After I was once out of the company because I was too naive, I chose to take the initiative to go to a new company.

First of all, knowing the composition of the people in this company, the youngest employees are naturally the easiest to mingle with; then ask the old employees with an open mind, and let them treat you as a junior who needs to be carried. As for the leadersIt is natural to behave well and be obedient.

There are also factional struggles in the office, and how to deal with them is also very important.

As a new employee, casual intervention is a taboo. Try to maintain an attitude that does not understand the situation and avoid these struggles. However, you cannot keep a cold relationship with both parties. Therefore, how to control this level requires random response.

Of course, the most important thing is how close you are to the superiors on both sides of the contradiction. Let him know that you are aloof. In this case, no problems will occur and it will not be difficult to argue.

For one thing, there is no need to hate a colleague no matter how bad it is. The so-called defensive heart is indispensable, and the harmful heart must not be.

Once you want to frame someone, you will be involved in the conflict yourself, after all, work is your main purpose.

So this is important.

Many colleagues who usually get along with each other just because of this problem gradually become people who get caught up in, and lose more than gain.

  It ‘s better to work together than to work in the same room. The relationship between my private business clerks and colleagues seems to me to be very simple. Our company is a young company. From the boss to the most ordinary employees, we are young.It’s not over 35 years old.

  Young people have no plans, and they have many common languages. Working together, talking and laughing are always happy.

Especially in our sales department, no one is over 30 years old. Although there are some comparisons and competition among colleagues, but if you manage each client individually, you can do well, and the efficiency of the department will rise; you ca n’t do wellAt that time, the salary budget will fall, and everyone will suffer.

  Therefore, the word “teamwork” is most obvious in the sales department where I work. It can be felt that with such a harmonious interpersonal relationship, everyone in the department wants to integrate into this “relationship circle.”I want to get support in my exchanges with colleagues and hope to be recognized by this “relationship circle”.

Anyway, I think that since working in a team, it is better to help each other than to work together in the same room.

  In addition to the harmonious relationship between colleagues in the office, the company and the department also often organize some activities, some people have dinner together, go to KTV to sing or something.

In these casual occasions, colleagues are more relaxed, and barriers to communication between each other are more eliminated. In those occasions, we can hear real repetitions, sincere praise, and of course, objective evaluations.

  Don’t separate work from friends. Patrick’s 25-year-old job can also make friends, but I don’t think work should be the whole of life. At work, I always want to make friends.

If it is meaningful to focus on work, such a friend is not a friend, but a colleague or a work partner.

However, if you have the sincerity of making friends, in fact, other content will inevitably be interspersed in your work, such as life, feelings, hobbies and so on.

Therefore, I don’t think we should think of the battlefield as soon as we mention the workplace. Even on the battlefield, there are alliances and friends who kill the enemy together and have a similar mind.

In fact, the most important thing is its own mentality and principles of life. It is actually a very happy thing to treat your colleagues suddenly and forgivingly.

True friends don’t distinguish between the subsidiary and the role they play.

For me, a friend is the person you would like to ask his opinion on, no matter what, you would be eager to communicate with him and share their experiences.

Maybe my thoughts are naive, or maybe I am simpler.

  In my current job, I treat each colleague with “honesty”. You will not offend me, and I will never come to offend you.

Of course, for that kind of insidious villain, I will never be softhearted.
Because I despise those who rely on relationships to climb up and only give small reports behind the scenes.

Although I don’t work long, I already have many friends and of course enemies.

Public and private are clear, and treat each other with courtesy is my working principle.

  The boss hopes that the relationship between his employees is like a harp. Each employee is a vertical string. There will never be intersections. Some are just beautiful music played together.

He himself is the skilled piano player.
But communication between employees is really not that simple.
In private, their relationship with each other is more like a spider web, which seems easy but can not stand the test. A gust of wind, a finger, and a gecko may break through the fragile web.

Moreover, there may be a “spider essence” in each web.
  Office game theory Cox’s 26-year-old interpersonal relationship game is really everywhere, so-called office politics is such a game.

Although I don’t want to spend a lot of time and brainpower on going to work every day or dealing with complex interpersonal relationships, this kind of thing is often what you don’t like and face.

After I was once out of the company because I was too naive, I chose to take the initiative to go to a new company.
First of all, knowing the composition of the people in this company, the youngest employees are naturally the easiest to mingle with; then ask the old employees with an open mind, and let them treat you as a junior who needs to be carried. As for the leadersIt is natural to behave well and be obedient.

There are also factional struggles in the office, and how to deal with them is also very important.
As a new employee, casual intervention is a taboo. Try to maintain an attitude that does not understand the situation and avoid these struggles. However, you cannot keep a cold relationship with both parties. Therefore, how to control this level requires random response.

Of course, the most important thing is how close you are to the superiors on both sides of the contradiction. Let him know that you are aloof. In this case, no problems will occur and it will not be difficult to argue.

For one thing, there is no need to hate a colleague no matter how bad it is. The so-called defensive heart is indispensable, and the harmful heart must not be.
Once you want to frame someone, you will be involved in the conflict yourself, after all, work is your main purpose.
So this is important.
Many colleagues who usually get along with each other just because of this problem gradually become people who get caught up in, and lose more than gain.

  It ‘s better to work together than to work in the same room. The relationship between my private business clerks and colleagues seems to me to be very simple. Our company is a young company. From the boss to the most ordinary employees, we are young.It’s not over 35 years old.
  Young people have no plans, and they have many common languages. Working together, talking and laughing are always happy.

Especially in our sales department, no one is over 30 years old. Although there are some comparisons and competition among colleagues, but if you manage each client individually, you can do well, and the efficiency of the department will rise; you ca n’t do wellAt that time, the salary budget will fall, and everyone will suffer.

  Therefore, the word “teamwork” is most obvious in the sales department where I work. It can be felt that with such a harmonious interpersonal relationship, everyone in the department wants to integrate into this “relationship circle.”I want to get support in my exchanges with colleagues and hope to be recognized by this “relationship circle”.
Anyway, I think that since working in a team, it is better to help each other than to work together in the same room.
  In addition to the harmonious relationship between colleagues in the office, the company and the department also often organize some activities, some people have dinner together, go to KTV to sing or something.

In these casual occasions, colleagues are more relaxed, and barriers to communication between each other are more eliminated. In those occasions, we can hear real repetitions, sincere praise, and of course, objective evaluations.

  Don’t separate work from friends. Patrick’s 25-year-old job can also make friends, but I don’t think work should be the whole of life. At work, I always want to make friends.

If it is meaningful to focus on work, such a friend is not a friend, but a colleague or a work partner.

However, if you have the sincerity of making friends, in fact, other content will inevitably be interspersed in your work, such as life, feelings, hobbies and so on.

Therefore, I don’t think we should think of the battlefield as soon as we mention the workplace. Even on the battlefield, there are alliances and friends who kill the enemy together and have a similar mind.

In fact, the most important thing is its own mentality and principles of life. It is actually a very happy thing to treat your colleagues suddenly and forgivingly.

True friends don’t distinguish between the subsidiary and the role they play.

For me, a friend is the person you would like to ask his opinion on, no matter what, you would be eager to communicate with him and share their experiences.
Maybe my thoughts are naive, or maybe I am simpler.
  In my current job, I treat each colleague with “honesty”. You will not offend me, and I will never come to offend you.
Of course, for that kind of insidious villain, I will never be softhearted.
Because I despise those who rely on relationships to climb up and only give small reports behind the scenes.
Although I don’t work long, I already have many friends and of course enemies.

Public and private are clear, and treat each other with courtesy is my working principle.

23 Dec

Pillow stuffing, let you fall down and sleep, not bitten in summer

Pillow stuffing, let you fall down and sleep, not bitten in summer

Since ancient times, people have understood the essence of sleep and constantly sought ways to help sleep. The so-called Song Dynasty poet Lu You said: “Huashan Shishi sees it, and does not know how to sleep.”

“Today, I would like to share with you a simple medicine pillow. The cassia pillow can be used for the health repair massage of the human brain, heart, cardiovascular, cervical vertebrae, etc., to make the human body recover, the meridian is smooth, promote blood circulation, reduce blood pressure and cool down.To improve the function of the internal organs.

The seeds are hard, and the head and the acupuncture points can be massaged, so the headache, dizziness, insomnia, cerebral arteriosclerosis, cervical spondylosis, etc. on the liver and the yang are helpful.

Cassia natural physiotherapy uses, and extensively expand the field of blood pressure, laxative, weight loss and other fields.

In addition, the unique coolness of Cassia is particularly comfortable in summer, especially in line with the basic physiotherapy theory of Chinese medicine “hot head hot feet”.

The method of making Cassia Pillow is the richness of Cassia. When making a sleeping pillow, the dry product can be about 150 grams (specifically, it is adjusted according to the individual’s acceptance of the aroma), too much can cause odor discomfort.

In addition, because the amount of cassia dry product is not enough to support the entire sleeping pillow, it needs to be filled with other materials, and can be made into a soft pillow or a hard pillow according to personal preference.

Cassia, repellent is also in the cassia sleep pillow texture loose, smell fragrant, calm and soothe the nerves, relieve sleep, relieve nervous tension, relieve dizziness, headache, and a certain role of mosquito repellent.

If you can’t stand the smell of mosquito scent, try the decision pillow?
Studies have also shown that Cassia fragrance can also help infants sleep, so that they can re-enter sleep, wake up at night and reduce the number of times, the time is shorter.

However, infants and young children cannot judge and choose the aroma of their own. Therefore, when using it for infants, reduce the amount of cassia seed, or replace the sachet with cassia seed, sachet, and suspend it at the bedside.

In the end, I guess you like the effect of jaundice and the method of eating qi and blood. When you learn, you will see the tongue in the Chinese medicine. You can see the root of the disease at a glance. Can you learn to eat kidneys for a long time?

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